How To Prepare For Your First BlowJob

Blowjobs have split the sex community into two. Some hate it, others enjoy it. I am one of those you thrive on sucking cock. I have made it a staple in my sexual endeavors.

If this is your first blowjob, I am here to help you, Blowjobs have received a lot of bad press. Some people find it filthy and disgusting. On the other end of the spectrum other enjoy it like it is heaven. In many relationships, once it becomes physical, the guy’s goal next to banging you is getting a blowjob. So if at this point you haven’t have sex yet, you are almost there. Believe, me once you venture into cunnilingus and fellatio, penetration is not far away. But let’s not get ahead of ourselves. Blowjob: how do you prepare for it?

Suck Not to Prove Your Love

I’ve heard it before and I am one of those stupid women who listened. Guys say that to show your lve you have to suck their cock! NO! You do not prove your love by having their cocks jammed down your throat. That’s deep throating though. If a guy uses this line slap him crazy. Instead, you give someone a blowjob because you want to do it. You want to experience a sensual act with him. Putting someone’s genitalia in the mouth is an act of sensual intimacy. And using love to get you sucking him is just lame. Of course, if you love the person, no one is stopping you to suck to your heart’s content.

Common concerns

Blowjobs are not for everyone. So let’s talk about the common concerns why women do not love giving head to their guys. Believe I have a list of my own: 5 Things I Hate When Going Down On My Man. Check it out because it may happen to you.

Gagging. This happens a lot even for seasoned cock suckers. Taking someone’s cock in your mouth can be uncomfortable. Depending on his length and size, gagging is a concern. Also, cum flying at 25 kilometers an hour can slam onto your throat and it is no laughing matter. Here are some of my tips especially for first time suckers. Use your hands , both if needed to act as a natural stopper for his cock to prevent it from going too deep. Wrap your hands around his shaft and stroke gently. Place your mouth on his head while you move your hands along his length. A twisting movement on his cock will drive him crazy. Remember to lube up to make this feel more awesome. If you do not have lube, use your saliva. As for the cum flying in your mouth check for signs that he is really close. His testicles will ascend when he is close. His body will tense up and many men would pause right before they ejaculate. If your partner is kind enough, he will tell you that is about to cum. Take these cues seriously. When he is really near, you can have him cum on your body instead inside your mouth. If that is not possible, move his cock a little closer to your lips. This will prevent semen from shooting violently into your throat. You can even put your tongue in front of his head as a barrier for your throats protection. When he does cum, do not try swallowing at the first burst. They ejaculate in successions of 3 or four times. Allow them to unload in your mouth and let their semen just chill in your mouth as the ejaculate. Once he is done you can just let his semen spill out of your mouth onto his cock. Of course you can swallow at this point.

Taste. The semen varies in taste. Some men have really metallic taste. Others have a hint of sweetness in it. Diet, if I am not mistaken, plays a huge part in it. Many guys who I have sucked that eat a lot of vegetables taste sweeter. This is just my observations though. Cum is an acquired taste. For this, there is not much you can do. However, you can lessen the impact of the flavor by using flavored lubricants. I suggest you do not buy the cheap ones since their strawberry or cherry flavor taste like cough syrup. Another technique that I have used before is pouring chocolate or cream on their shaft to lessen the strong taste.

Eating cum was not in my sex arsenal when I was younger. But eventually, I learned to enjoy it. Spitting it out is often a good way to avoid its taste. I know a friend who likes to let cum drip from her mouth when she gives a blowjob. It looks sexy and fucking hot. But she does that because she does not like the taste of semen.

Texture. The texture of semen varies from slimy like eggs to school glue. The texture and consistency depends on the amount of liquid in their bodies. Also, each ejaculation lessens that amount of cum ejaculated. Give him a handjob first before sucking him – if this is possible. The amount of ejaculation varies from person to person. So don’t be fooled by porn movies where guys cum like they need to fill up a soda can. The average man according to WHO shoots out at most 10ml of cum. That is around 2 teaspoons only. Some even share less.

Blowjobs are extremely pleasurable for men. This is the same way cunnilingus is awesome for us. Sharing their cocks with us is a very intimate act. If this is your first blowjob, make it pleasant. I had the unfortunate experience of having my first blowjob that is horrible. I want you to know these so that you can pleasure your guy without making yourself hate yourself. Take control of the blowjob so that you can enjoy it as well. It will take some getting used to but you can get there one day. Make your first blowjob memorable for you and your guy.