5 Things I Hate When Going Down On My Man

Making love is one of the activities that I enjoy doing. I’ve been actively exploring ways to make even more pleasurable. There are those that I like doing more than the other and my partners know this. I must admit that I like going down on my guy. However, there are some things that I truly dislike about it. Perhaps other women out there feel the same. I just hope more guys are sensitive enough to make the shift from being insensitive in bed to someone who responds to what is pleasurable for both.

1. Stop shoving my head into your crotch like you’re trying to poke it right through my head. Having something shoved deep down your throat repeatedly is unpleasant. So guys, imagine taking a banana and repeatedly shoving it down your throat as hard as you can. I like taking it deep down my throat but let me do it at my own pace.

2. Tell me when you’re about to shoot out a huge load into my mouth. Perhaps I’m one of those who enjoy eating semen. However, getting it at a speed faster than how my grandmother drives is another turn-off. Remember, asides from a mouthful of meat in my mouth I need to breathe. And thanks to our load you just blocked my airway. Give is a verbal cue or at least a sign that you are near. One partner of mine taps my shoulder. Just like when he taps on me when I have him on a choke hold.

3. Clean your junk, please. I enjoy the erotic play of tongue around your special parts. However, I will enjoy it better if it does not taste or smell like cheese. I make sure I am clean down there when I let you eat me. I expect the same courtesy. I want to eat you down there but give me the chance to enjoy myself as well.

4. Don’t shoot and go. Many partners of mine just have their junks stuck in my mouth then after a few minutes burst out then leave. Although I am more than happy to give you that exuberant release, I’d like to experience some lovin’ down there as well.

5. I like it in my mouth but not in my face. I don’t know if some are just bad at aiming but I have my mouth wide open. Please shoot it inside my mouth. I know some enjoy the spray on their partner’s face. It is a source of arousal for them. Unless someone else licks it from my face think again before shooting it on my face.

Pleasures in the bed are a mutual endeavor (unless of course, you are going solo). It’s like a give and take with the erotic flare to it. Some women do stuff for you just because they want you to enjoy it. But remember that some of the things you do may not find comfortable doing. Talk about what you like and dislike. This will help you create a more pleasurable experience with your partner.