I Am A Bisexual

In a world where gender sensitivity needs a little more push, many are coming out of their closets. I am a bisexual and that was difficult growing up. I had crushes on other girls at school and that became difficult for me. I like guys as well and this balanced the stigma. I pretended to be a straight woman for so long. But the truth was, it’s not who me. I wanted boys and girls. I felt different. I felt ashamed.

When I was in high school I had a boyfriend and we fooled around. It was exciting. Getting physical and exploring were amazing. By the time I was in college I set my eyes on other women. It was then I learned I was not alone. Liking other women was not uncommon. I was not alone. But there were times that I still enjoyed the touch of a man. The length of his manhood inside of me was unique. The taste and texture that exploded in my mouth were different. I enjoyed it. I still do. I love being with both men and women. I was a bisexual. This is who I am.

There were times when I had to explain what being bisexual was. Then it got tedious. This is why I just told them I was a lesbian. Yes, I got teased and mocked for being different. But that was half of who I wanted. I also wanted men. Eventually I didn’t care anymore about what they thought about me. This is when I felt free.

Being bisexual gives me the best of both worlds. I enjoy that magical rod guys wield around. I also like the soft folds between a woman’s thighs. I like pushing long shafts down my throat and in my special hole. I also like getting squirted while licking my girl down there. Now, have you every enjoyed the long shaft of a guy down your hole? Have you enjoyed the touch of a woman? Perhaps straight guys or women can say yes. But I enjoy both. And I get both.

Being bisexual opens a lot of creativity in the bedroom – or some other place. It allows me to enjoy both worlds – making love to men and making love to women. But it is never easy when society treats you with disdain. You’re never taken seriously and worse, you get bullied. I always thought that our world is free from bigotry. It is not. No one will love you more than yourself. If you do not love yourself no one will.

Being bisexual is who I am. Let me be.